I want to pioneer an Intentional Community!

 

My Advice to Others Planning to Start an Ecovillage

Published in the Fall 2012 issue of Communities magazine - Issue #156
  • Start with people
  • Develop a core group
  • be persistent and persevering
  • do more with less
  • Let your integrity be your guide
  • Keep educating
  • Recognize others at every opportunity, be gracious
  • Learn, teach, use an effective feedback method
  • Facilitating widespread consciousness is the goal

New Community Vision

Teaching a 6-year-old to question authority (Tue, 05 Mar 2019)
I taught Sunday school once. You know right away that church was struggling mightily to stay alive. I know even less about religion than I do about children. Growing up with over-the-top Catholicism, I am deeply skeptical of all religions and find the very word “church” loaded with baggage. Renaming my church the Lake Street […] The post Teaching a 6-year-old to question authority appeared first on New Community Vision.
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CREATING A LIFE TOGETHER

 
MICProcessDiana Leafe Christian’s book Creating a Life Together lays out in painstaking detail the process to create an Intentional Community. She is unapologetic about airing the dirty laundry of the 90% of Intentional Communities that have failed, because these are the lessons that must be learned if the next generation of communities is to succeed. “This”, says Patch Adams in the book’s preface, “is the work for political activists who want to live their solutions.” If we want to change the world, we need to Be the Change, and create the model that others can look at and say “See, it works! There is a better way to live!”.

 

Diana’s book is address to founders, and assumes that someone will be ‘in charge’ of the community. And while the book carefully lays out the principles of consensus governance, it warns that such governance isn’t right for every community, and unless done properly ‘structural conflict’ can be the community’s undoing.

Here’s the process outlined in the book, in a nutshell:

  1. The qualities needed to found, and belong to, an Intentional Community
  2. Creating the community Vision
  3. Setting up decision-making and governance processes, fundamental operating principles, preliminary timeline, membership criteria, and documented log of critical decisions made
  4. Selecting members and determining what each member must equitably contribute and commit to
  5. Conflict resolution and effective communication
  6. Legal forms of organization
  7. Deciding on land needs, researching, form of holding, registering, creatively financing it, and dealing with neighbours and zoning (in many areas, multi-family buildings are prohibited by zoning laws designed to keep density low, but can have the effect of torpedoing Intentional Community building plans)
  8. Site planning
  9. Making the community sustainable

One interesting exercise in the book has each member identify “things, situations and systems that must be or must not be present” in order for them to go forward as a member of the community — a brilliant and innovative process to level-set and clarify expectations. Another exercise has each member use red dots on a large easel to define minimum acceptable and ideal standards and values for the community on matters as diverse as what foods will be raised and eaten, the use of automobiles in the community, and moral and aesthetic standards. The exercise quickly shows where there is, and is not, consensus, and which members are going to be uncomfortable with the group’s consensus.

There’s an interesting discussion on privacy. It turns out most people’s initial concerns about not having enough privacy in an Intentional Community is unwarranted. “It’s much easier to get solitude in the midst of community than to get community in the midst of solitude”, notes Tom Moench, a member of one community. When people opt out, it’s more likely to be over personality incompatibilities, unmet or changed expectations, or financial, power or principle disputes — the same problems that cause many marriages to fail.

 

Just as in marriage, however, moral issues, differences and lifestyles are a big issue. In the 1960s, a lot of communes collapsed because of differences over monogomy vs. polyamory philosophy, over the acceptability of nudity and public displays of affection (especially in front of children), and over ‘it takes a village to raise a child’ issues of responsibility for others in the community. The book presupposes the continued existence of monogamous relationships and personal property, and there are many Intentional Communities for which these are critical, contentious issues.

But on the whole this is a thorough, brave and valuable handbook for creating Intentional Communities. 

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Foundation for Intentional Community

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